No More Mr. Nice Guy: A Proven Plan for Getting What You Want in Love, Sex, and Life
by Dr. Robert A. Glover
July 15, 2020 — Unknown
Los Angeles, CA
Initially, I thought this would just be a relationship book, but it’s much more than that it’s a mixture of psychology and sociology that re-educates the modern man on their life and how to proceed with it through their choices and character. I loved this book and now I feel more activated, abundant, absolute, and amazing than before.
We as men have to become integrated as in being able to accept all aspects of ourselves. Why have men changed? It’s because we have been separated from our fathers and other significant male role models, set to be raised by women who shaped our ideas of what it is to be a man, while facing the rise of radical feminism that implies that men are bad or unnecessary. The most important thing to realize is that women’s approval of you doesn’t matter nor does it define you. At the same time, it’s time to be a better man: Do well for yourself and upgrade your life, because you deserve the best.
Don’t plan anything based on other people’s schedules, you do what you want and invite others to join along. The world is on your time, because you are on your own time. Approve of yourself, put yourself first, reveal yourself and your vulnerabilities and confidently fix them, eliminate negative or toxic people, take responsibility for your own needs, dwell in reality, always be willing to apologize for what you did wrong and express your feelings, develop integrity and set boundaries, and of course: embrace your masculinity.
A lot of “nice guys” have been living their lives expecting good for what they think and falsely show that they’re trying to be good people or doing the right thing, it ends up backfiring: they become drained from their positivity energy and masculinity, end up being confused with why they’re not getting what they want back from their pursuits, and becoming rotten within themselves. Put yourself first and put people in their place, understand that the world has so much to offer to you in terms of relationships, so don’t ever default on mediocre or bad, only accept what's in your favor. It’s not selfish, it’s self-preservation.