Tuesdays with Morrie: An Old Man, a Young Man, and Life's Greatest Lesson
by Mitch Albom
October 10, 2020 [7:15 PM — 10:35 PM]
Los Angeles, CA
A book revolving around the meaning of life between a dying sick man with his young student, made up of weekly discussions they had regarding the world, feeling sorry for yourself, regrets, death, family, emotions, the fear of aging, money, how love goes on, marriage, our culture, forgiveness, the perfect day, and saying goodbye. I read this on my father’s 7th death anniversary and found it to be similar to the final conversations I had with Baba, a man who lived a meaningful life, more than what I could understand when I was 16. It’s not a sad book, even though the events reignite emotions when you sense flashbacks and similarities, but an inspiring one that will teach you a lot (as it is intended to).
Since I was young, I’ve always emphasized the importance of a meaningful life and present a no-bullshit attitude when it comes to that. There are two things no one is certain of, when we will leave the world and what happens to us after we’re gone. This uncertainty has always made me focus on the value of my life, it’s why I’m impatient when it comes to progress and keep my foot on the pedal, why I only accept excellence and nothing mediocre, go for the best and nothing less, not take shit from anyone and focus only on those I truly care about, and dream/think big (why not?). I don’t know when I’ll leave and where I’m going after, so while I’m here, I’m going to make sure I make the most out of life every day and never settle for anything that’s not great. My desire for a meaningful life is the reason why it’s happening.
Love is the most important feeling and gift in the world. Love those who naturally love you, don’t chase for it, and you will be fulfilled. Emotions in general, we tend to hold back on them, but we should throw ourselves fully in them to experience feeling them completely, so when the time comes we can detach easily when needed. We should use our presence to make people feel like they matter, are noticed, and have it easy in life with us being there for them. When people reflect and wish they can be younger, it reflects an unsatisfied and fulfilled life, instead, fulfill each moment within your age and embrace the new experiences that come with it.
There’s so much to learn from the book, but I will end it with a highlight that reminded me of my father. That you will not be remembered for what you take, but only for what you five to others. You won’t be taking anything with you in death, but only leave what you gave others. A legacy will always outlive life. Remember that.